Marriage Advice Quotes

Marriage Advice Quotes

Marriage Advice Quotes

 

Use character-related words that honor your spouse for such qualities as patience, helpfulness, courage, or kindness. Create regular opportunities for fun, laughter, and positive experiences. Figure out what communicates love to each other and do that. Be observant and thoughtful with little things and even do chores that the other dislikes. Consciously doing what opens and softens your spouse’s heart will benefit you both in the long-run and keep your marriage happier.

- Susanne Alexander

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A woman needs her partner to spend time giving her his full attention and looking directly into her eyes. When she receives this, she can easily get in touch with her feelings of love for her husband and becomes much more receptive to his needs. This is how intimacy can be fulfilling for both people…magical even!

- Linda Wiggins, Executive Director for RelationSync

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If I am unhappy with my husband about something, it stands to reason there are things about me he is unhappy about. We need to work together.

- BT

 

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Always remember that life is long. In the heat of the moment, what feels super important will likely fade in importance as time goes by. Before you react by yelling, tossing insults or unkind words, remember that “This, too, shall pass”. In fact, recent studies have shown that even the most unhappiest of couples report being very happy five years later. So don’t let one unfortunate incident, difficult argument or challenging moment destroy your lifetime of happiness.

- Melanie Gorman, MA

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… it was that I should love my husband, but not wrap myself up in my husband. That I should always remember that I was a person before him, and I should do my damnest to stay a person while married to him … second best advice was to never completely tie your finances to your husband–always have something of your own.

deblgus

 

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A strong marriage is a partnership in trust. Trust your partner in everything, including purchases and financial decisions, and to bring up things with you that need a joint decision. If you can’t do that, the two of you have a problem.

- Donald Pelles, Ph.D., CHt

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You’re entitled to the occasional bad mood. You’re not entitled to make your partner the whipping boy.

- Sherry Amatenstein, LCSW

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Someone once said that marriage is like standing in a corridor lined with doors. You go off through your door, he goes through his, but at the end of the day you have to come back to the corridor, touch base, hold hands, because through every door are more doors, and beyond them, more again, and if you both go through too many without coming back to the corridor, you may never find your way back.

- Carrie Adams, The Godmother

 

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The best way to strengthen a marriage is to support and assist each other in being the best you can be. A strong marriage is one in which both people understand that the other person needs to have outside interests and activities which help them to feel happy and fulfilled. A strong marriage is one where both people understand that it is more important to be happy than it is to be right.

- Dr. Joe Amoia
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When your partner tells you something (about you) that is bothering him—reflect back what he is saying. When we “mirror”, this helps us not feel as defensive and allows us the opportunity to better understand what he is trying to communicate.

- Anne Crowley, Ph.D

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Lean in. When it gets hard in a relationship, our tendency is to protect ourselves, to retreat, to “lean out.” Leaning out when your partner reaches out creates distance and dissonance. If instead you “lean in” to the uncomfortable feelings, to the unknown and your own vulnerability, and meet your partner, you can actually strengthen your relationship through the struggles you face together.

- Christine Arylo, Life Coach

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The best advice in my opinion is to live in a different town than your families when you get married. My hubby is in the Air Force and lucky for both of us, we moved across the country! We both grew up in negative environments and the space is a blessing! Now we appreciate talking to our families and they are far enough away where they can’t interfere and smother us with negativity. On another note, I believe the standard “don’t go to bed angry” is right as rain as well!

GirlyGirl220

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All the vital components that make a relationship successful, without any of the emotional messiness to drag it down. It’s about respect, caring, and commitment. Shared goals and compatible priorities. It’s about treating marriage like a partnership instead of some romantic fantasy. It’s about two people liking each other.

- Mira Lyn Kelly, Waking Up Married

 

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On those ever-important date nights, remember to be a wife first and a critic second. Every time you open your mouth to complain about something—whether it’s the food, the service, the movie, the weather, whatever—some part of your partner feels he’s failing because you aren’t having a great time. Men are happiest when they can please their woman! Save the full critique for your girlfriends and in meantime, let him see the best in you.

- Delaine Moore, Dating and Relationship Coach

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Preface important communication with a simple yet effective introduction, such as: “Honey, I’m confused about your response to my plans for a weekend hunting trip with the guys. When would be a good time to talk further?” My relationship coaching clients have found that prefacing their remarks encourages a better, more accommodating reaction from their partner.

- Greg R. Thiel, MA

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Couples often lose each other because of their busy lives: work, children, computers, and separate male/female activities. A healthy marriage is one that has a mix of individual, family, and couple time. The amount of each may be different for each couple, but the mix is necessary to keep a functional marriage.

- Michele Seligman LCSW, BCD

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. . . children should draw [a husband & wife] nearer than ever, not separate you, as if they were all yours, and [your husband] had nothing to do but support them. . . . don’t neglect husaband for children, don’t shut him out of the nursery, but teach him how to help in it. His place is there as well as yours, and the children need him; let him feel that he has his part to do, and he will do it gladly and faithfully, and it will be better for you all. . . . That is the secret of our home happiness: he does not let business wean him from the little cares and duties that affect us all, and I try not to let domestic worries destroy my interest in his pursuits. Each do our part alone in many things, but at home we work together, always. . . . no time is so beautiful and precious to parents as the first years of the little lives given them to train. Don’t let [your husband] be a stranger to the babies, for they will do more to keep him safe and happy in this world of trial and temptation than anything else, and through them you will learn to know and love one another as you should.

-  Louisa May Alcott, Good Wives. Meg, Jo, Beth, and Amy: Being a Sequel to ‘Little Women’. With Illustrations by Jessie T. Mitchell

 

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One of the most important factors in a good marriage is respect. Respect each other, avoid verbal abuse, and keep insults to yourself. Bad words are just like squeezing toothpaste out of its tube—once it is out you can never get it back in again.

- Georgia Panayi, MBA

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Love your marriage by first taking care of yourself. So many of my patients say the reason their marriage fell apart is that they became depressed and disinterested in their partner. If you keep working on you, your marriage will stay fresh and vital. Start today by adding a new wedding vow to your list: Promise to take care of yourself so you will continue to age with grace and confidence by your partner’s side.

- Mary Jo Rapini, LPC

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Change your focus to one of learning to appreciate your partner.

- Michelle Poll, CPC, MA

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The biggest waste of effort in a marriage is trying to change your spouse, since the problems you have with your spouse are generally problems you have in yourself. When you try to change your spouse you come across as a nag and wind up sending the message that ‘who you are is not enough.’ Nobody likes getting that message, and it leads to distance and polarization. Let your spouse be who he or she is and focus on changing yourself.

- Dr. Rick Kirschner, Relationship Coach

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Compromise, communicate, and never go to bed angry – the three pieces of advice gifted and regifted to all newlyweds.

- Gillian Flynn, Gone Girl

 

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For men, it’s important to understand that women want to be listened to. Men don’t need to solve or fix everything; listening itself is an exceptional gift. For women, it’s important to understand that men need time for themselves. By giving him space to pull away and not taking it personally, you allow him to reconnect with his desire for you and his commitment to the relationship.

- MarsVenus Coaching, Life Coach

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If your goal is to have a satisfying marriage with longevity, make sure you are accountable for the part you play in the relationship—good or bad. When you are in denial about your part in the relationship then you are no better than a child flinging sand at another child in a sandbox. When you take responsibility for your part in the marriage, only then will you be able to connect with your partner in a mature, intimate way.

- Carin Goldstein, LMFT

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The best marriage advice I received was from my grandmother: Marriage is not always 50/50. Some days you will wake up and may have to give 90% and your spouse will give 10%. Other days you may wake up and give 25% and your husband will have to put in the 75%. I never thought of this before but it is so true.

Meme

 

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Pride And Prejudice Marriage Quotes

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pride and prejudice marriage quotes

 

 “Marriage is indeed a maneuvering business.”
― Jane Austen

 

“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.”

 

“An unhappy alternative is before you, Elizabeth. From this day you must be a stranger to one of your parents. Your mother  will never see you again if you do not marry Mr. Collins, and I will never see you again if you do.”
“Oh, Lizzy! do anything rather than marry without affection.”

 

“You are mistaken, Mr. Darcy, if you suppose that the mode of your declaration affected me in any other way, than as it spared the concern which I might have felt in refusing you, had you behaved in a more gentlemanlike manner.” (Elizabeth Bennett)”

 

“Happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance. If the dispositions of the parties are ever so well known to each other or ever so similar beforehand, it does not advance their felicity in the least. They always continue to grow sufficiently unlike afterwards to have their share of vexation; and it is better to know as little as possible of the defects of the person with whom you are to pass your life.”

 

My reasons for marrying are, first, that i think it a right thing for every clergyman in easy circumstances (like myself) to se the example of matrimony in his parish; secondly, that I am convinced it will add very greatly to my happiness; and thirdly-which perhaps I ought to have mentioned earlier, that it is the particular advice and recommendation of the very noble lady whom I have the honor of calling patroness. (Mr. Collins)
“You must give me leave to flatter myself, my dear cousin, that your refusal of my addresses is merely words of course. My reasons for believing it are briefly these: — It does not appear to me that my hand is unworthy your acceptance, or that the establishment I can offer would be any other than highly desirable. My situation in life, my connections with the family of De Bourgh, and my relationship to your own, are circumstances highly in its favor; and you should take it into farther consideration that in spite of your manifold attractions, it is by no means certain that another offer of marriage may ever be made you. Your portion is unhappily so small that it will in all likelihood undo the effects of your loveliness and amiable qualifications. As I must therefore conclude that you are not serious in your rejection of me, I shall chuse to attribute it to your wish of increasing my love by suspense, according to the usual practice of elegant females.
(Mr. Collins, after proposing to Elizabeth Bennet and being refused, in Pride and Prejudice.)”

 

“Happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance.”
It was, moreover, such a promising thing for her younger daughters, as Jane’s marrying so greatly must throw them in the way of other rich men; and lastly it was so pleasant at her time of life to be able to consign her single daughters to the care of their sister, that she might not be obliged to go into company more than she liked. (Mrs. Bennet)

 

You are too sensible a girl Lizzy, to fall in love merely becasue you are warned against it; and, therefore I am not afraid of speaking openly. Seriously, I would have you be on your guard. Do not involve yourself, or endeavor to involve him, in an affection which the want of fortune would make so vrey imprudent. I have nothing to say against HIM; his a most interesting young man; and if he had the forutune he ought to have, I think you could do not better. But as it is–you must not let your fancy run away with you. You ave sense, and we all expect you to use it. Your father would depend on YOUR resolution and good conduct, I am sure. you must not disappoint your father. (Mrs. Gardiner)

 

Quotes Author : Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice

 

 

 

10 Nice Quotes About Marriage And Love

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1. When you meet someone who can cook and do housework–don’t hesitate a minute–marry him.
– Anon


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2. I have no way of knowing whether or not you married the wrong person, but I do know that many people have a lot of wrong ideas about marriage and what it takes to make that marriage happy and successful. I’ll be the first to admit that it’s possible that you did marry the wrong person. However, if you treat the wrong person like the right person, you could well end up having married the right person after all. On the other hand, if you marry the right person, and treat that person wrong, you certainly will have ended up marrying the wrong person. I also know that it is far more important to be the right kind of person than it is to marry the right person. In short, whether you married the right or wrong person is primarily up to you

- Zig Zigla
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3. Love cures people – By both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.

– Dr. Karl Menninger
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4. A good marriage is the union of two good forgivers.
-Ruth Bell Graham

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5. “Marriages, like a garden, take time to grow. But the harvest is rich unto those who patiently and tenderly care for the ground.”

-Darlene Schacht

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6. “You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope…I have loved none but you.”

- Quotes Author: Jane Austen, Persuasion
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7.“My only love sprung from my only hate!
Too early seen unknown, and known too late!
Prodigious birth of love it is to me,
That I must love a loathed enemy.”

- Quotes Author: Shakespeare , Romeo and Juliet

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8. “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, and always with the same person.”
- Mignon McLaughlin

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9. “It takes something to get married: nerve, hope, a strong desire to make a certain statement—and it takes something to stay married: more hope, determination, a sense of humor, and needs that are best met by being in a pair.”
— Amy Bloom
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10. If You Want a Long Term Relationship. Follow The Simple Rule : “Never Lie”
- Unknown

 

 

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Best 20 Funny Wedding Quotes

 

 

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Are you looking for funny wedding quotes to personalize your wedding invitations and wedding programs? Below are best 20 funny wedding quotes we collected around the web, idea for use in wedding ceremony, or toast.

 

To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

-Bill Wilson

 

Marriages are made in heaven. But then again, so are thunder, lightening, tornadoes, and hail.”
—Unknown

 

“Marriage is like a deck of cards. All you need in the beginning are two hearts and a diamond. After 10 years, you need a club and spade.”

—Unknown

 

Love is a game that two can play and both win by loosing their heart.
-Eva Gabor

 

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.

-Mignon McLaughlin:

 

“Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not.”
—Albert Einstein

 

 

“Marriage is give and take. You’d better give it to her or she’ll take it anyway.”
Joey Adams

 

“Love is one long, sweet dream—and marriage is the alarm clock.”
—Unknown

 

Every mother generally hopes that her daughter will snag a better husband than she managed to do…but she’s certain that her boy will never get as great a wife as his father did.

—Unknown

 

Funny Wedding Quotes

Funny Wedding Quotes

When you meet someone who can cook and do housework–don’t hesitate a minute–marry him.
- Anon

 

“Why does a woman work ten years to change a man, then complain he’s not the man she married?”
Barbara Streisand

 

“Marriage is a relationship where one person is always right and the other is the husband.”
—Unknown

 

“If the husband is the head of the family, the wife is the neck that turns the head around.”
—Unknown

 

“When I married Ms. Right, I didn’t realize her first name was ‘Always.’”
—Unknown

 

Love, and a cough, cannot be hid.
-George Herbert

 

If you have it [Love], you don’t need to have anything else, and if you don’t have it, it doesn’t matter much what else you have.
-Sir James M. Barrie

 

To keep your marriage brimming, With love in the wedding cup, Whenever you’re wrong, admit it; Whenever you’re right, shut up. -Ogden Nash

 

“Marriage is like a hot bath. Once you get used to it, it’s not so hot.”
—Unknown

 

It is written, when children find true love, parents find true joy. Here’s to your joy and ours from this day forward.

-Unknown

 

Husbands are like fires. They go out if left unattended.
-Zsa Zsa Gabor

 

 

Inspirational Quotes About Marriage Problems

Inspirational Quotes About Marriage Problems

Inspirational Quotes About Marriage Problems

 

A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.

- Ruth Bell Graham
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Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate.

- Barnett Brickner

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For a marriage to have any chance, every day at least six things should go unsaid.

- Unknown

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The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It’s a choice you make – not just on your wedding day, but over and over again – and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife.

- Barbara De Angelis

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Marriage is three parts love and seven parts forgiveness of sins.

- Lao Tzu

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A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person

- Mignon McLaughlin

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It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.

- Friedrich Nietzsche

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Many marriages would be better if the husband and the wife clearly
understood that they are on the same side.

- Zig Ziglar

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The success of marriage comes not in finding the “right” person, but in the
ability of both partners to adjust to the real person they ineveitably realize they
married.

- John Fischer


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Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry

- Tom Mullen

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Real giving is when we give to our spouses what’s important to them,
whether we understand it, like it, agree with it, or not.

- Michele Weiner-Davis, Divorce Busting: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again
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The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but to hold hands.

- Alexandra Penney

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Why is it that people get married?
Because we need a witness to our lives.
There’s a billion people on the planet.
What does any one life really mean?
But in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything…
The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things,
All of it… all the time, every day.
You’re saying “Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it.
Your life will not go unwitnessed – because I will be your witness.

- Wife in the movie, Shall We Dance? 2004

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Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time

- Thomas Edison

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As for his secret to staying married, my wife tells me that if I ever
decide to leave, she is coming with me

- Jon Bon Jovi

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Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years

- Simone Signoret

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What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how
compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility.

- Leo Tolstoy

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What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are
joined for life – to strengthen each other in all labor, to rest on each
other in all sorrow, to minister to each other in all pain, to be one with
each other in silent, unspeakable memories at the moment of the last parting.

- George Elliott (aka Mary Anne Evans)

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Be presidents of each other’s fan clubs.

- Tony Heath

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Inspirational Quotes About Marriage Problems

Inspirational Quotes About Marriage Problems

I have no way of knowing whether or not you married the wrong person, but I do know that many people have a lot of wrong ideas about marriage and what it takes to make that marriage happy and successful. I’ll be the first to admit that it’s possible that you did marry the wrong person. However, if you treat the wrong person like the right person, you could well end up having married the right person after all. On the other hand, if you marry the right person, and treat that person wrong, you certainly will have ended up marrying the wrong person. I also know that it is far more important to be the right kind of person than it is to marry the right person. In short, whether you married the right or wrong person is primarily up to you

- Zig Ziglar

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Happy marriages are based on a deep friendship. By this I mean a mutual respect for and enjoyment of each other’s company.

- John Gottman

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The best proof of love is trust.

- Joyce Brothers

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I think a man and a woman should choose each other for life, for the
simple reason that a long life with all its accidents is barely enough time for
a man and a woman to understand each other and. . . to understand – is to love.

- William Butler Yeats

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I like not only to be loved, but to be told that I am loved; the realm of silence is large enough beyond the grave

- George Eliot
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Let there be spaces in your togetherness

- Khalil Gibran

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There is no greater happiness for a man than approaching a
door at the end of a day knowing someone on the other side
of that door is waiting for the sound of his footsteps

- Ronald Reagan

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The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother

- Theodore Hesburgh

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I like not only to be loved, but to be told that I am loved; the realm of
silence is large enough beyond the grave.

- George Eliot

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Marriage is our last, best chance to grow up.

- Joseph Barth

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A simple enough pleasure, surely, to have breakfast alone with one’s husband, but how seldom married people in the midst of life achieve it.

- Anne Morrow Lindbergh

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The first duty of love is to listen.

- Paul Tillich

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Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship,
is conversation.

- Oscar Wilde

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It is not your love that sustains the marriage, but from now on, the
marriage that sustains your love.

- Dietrich Bonhoeffer, writing to a young bride and groom from his prison cell in
Nazi Germany in 1943

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What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult for each other?

- George Eliot

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To get divorced because love has died, is like selling your car
because it’s run out of gas.

- Diane Sollee, smartmarriages.com

 

 


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The development of a really good marriage is not a natural process.
It is an achievement.

- David and Vera Mace

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The hardest-learned lesson: that people have only
their kind of love to give, not our kind.

-Mignon McLauglin

 

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